Fourteenth Page

Entry Sixty


The Opioid Crisis

January 13. 2020


Currently, there is a hue and cry, far and wide, regarding opioid use and its connection to high numbers of opioid overdoses.

While this concern has several very valid issues and statistics, it does not honestly address the entire picture. As it now stands, pharmacies and physicians are extremely reluctant and/or afraid to prescribe any opioid meds. It has become a question of “liability vs the patients’s needs” which has overridden past practices of approving opioid prescriptions; even to excess.

As it stands nowadays, due to the public outcry and the resultant fear entrenching pharmacies and physicians, many patients are not getting the proper dose of opioids to address their pain management needs.

So, many persons, taking the dose of opioids prescribed by their physicians, could not overdose due to the fact that the medical professionals are restricted in the quantity and dose of opioids they can prescribe; and in many cases, the patient is not receiving enough pain meds to address their chronic pain. The only way a person could OD on opiates, these days, would be to not take their prescribed opiate drugs, but to hoard them and at such time as they deemed fit, make a conscious decision to “OD” ending in death or a near-death incident.


The other way an individual could OD would be to obtain their opiate drugs illegally; on the streets, stealing from a family member’s opiate prescription, buying from an unscrupulous physician, purchasing from a drug dealer, etc. They may also seek out other means to alleviate their pain, “self-medicating,” and in so doing, “accidentally OD” as is allegedly the case with many celebrities as well as the regular public.

Case in Point:

This is in response to a survey I received via email about my experience at the pharmacy. It concerns a prescription ordered by my oncologist on 12-26-19.

I had an appointment with my oncologist on 12-26-19, and she asked how I was doing, and asked the usual questions: How have I been feeling?  Am I having any chills or hot flashes? How am I sleeping? Am I having any pain, etc. I explained I have a great deal of trouble sleeping, in large part due to the pain. That I take a Norco before I go to bed, and another when I wake up in pain, so I can sleep longer. I told her I get 28 a month, leaving me with 2 or 3 days a month with no Norco. I told her I must use a cane, as needed, due to the pain. That I’m unable to do the things I used to do because of the pain in my joints – knees, hips, shoulders, hands, wrists. I told her I also take ibuprofen and naproxen throughout the day and night because the meds I get do not handle the pain.

(I also have pain associated with my diagnoses of: Fibromyalgia, chronic pain syndrome, Sjogren’s, degenerative lumbar disc condition, and HypoParathyroidism.)

She then prescribed a Fentanyl patch, at the lowest dose and said several of her patients are using the Fentanyl patch and that it works well to alleviate pain, not just for sleeping, but throughout the day and night. She said she’d order it for pick-up at the nearest pharmacy.

I went to the pharmacy on 12-27-19 to pick it up. I was made to wait, then directed to see the pharmacist. The pharmacist stated she could not approve the prescription. She said she called my oncologist and told her about how she refused to approve it. My oncologist then had to cancel the prescription order.

The pharmacist told me I was not taking enough Norco, and not at a high enough dose to justify the fentanyl patch. She further commented that my body would not tolerate the patch, that I would literally die if I used it at this time. She suggested I contact my primary doctor and request that he up my Norco dose from the 5/325 to the 10/325 dose. She also offered to contact my primary doctor herself and make that request.

I told my oncologist, via the messaging system through the insurance company online, and she said I would have to try a higher dose of Norco, then try morphine, before I could get the Fentanyl patch. (In my records, since starting with my insurance company, I have told all my doctors that I get extremely violent with morphine, that I have severe hallucinations, and I get very nauseated on morphine; therefore, cannot take it.)

Well, I don’t know if the female pharmacist contacted my primary physician or not, so I messaged him through their online system. He told me as my primary care physician, he could not prescribe Norco at a higher dose, and suggested I discuss with my oncologist about my increased pain medications concern.

I did as he suggested, and left her a message through the insurance company’s online system. I have not received a response.

I am confounded. It defies all logic that I must take more opioids, at a higher dose, before I can get more/and other opioids I am guessing no one wants to be liable, in light of the public outcry about opioids. So, is it liability versus patient’s needs?

I am at a loss as to what to do now. It seems no one is willing to address this; and I am on my own regarding the issue of the pain I deal with 24/7.

I am extremely happy, satisfied and have a deep respect for my oncologist! And I am content with my primary physician; but in this regard, I feel I’ve been set aside, with no intention to address the problem further.




(The entire “problem” with opioid prescription and use, needs to be re-evaluated to include the varying needs and situations of ALL the effected patients; including those who are left with no other legal option to address their pain. It should not be so… Too bad the pharmaceutical business cannot or will not develop a pain medication that is not an opioid, but eases the pain as effectively.)



Entry Sixty One

Is It Time to Move Closer to Your Senior Loved One? Look for These Signs

Article contributed by – Hazel Bridges.

Image via Unsplash

About 41.8 million Americans are caregivers to people 50 and older, but caregiving isn’t easy when you live far away from a senior loved one. Being geographically close is often necessary when they need more care. It’s not always easy to know when it’s time to move closer, but these tips from Now – Before Beyond can help.

Increasing Health Problems

The National Council on Aging states that 80 percent of older adults have at least one chronic condition, and almost 70 percent of Medicare beneficiaries are diagnosed with two or more chronic conditions. If your loved one has advancing chronic health issues, they might need additional help to manage the disease and other care.

Inability to Handle Activities of Daily Living (ADLs)

Activities of daily living often become more difficult with age. This includes basic tasks such as bathing, getting dressed, using the bathroom, getting in and out of bed, and eating. Limited mobility and cognitive issues can interfere with these activities. If your loved one struggles to meet their basic needs, moving closer allows you to help.

High In-Home Care Costs

If you don’t live near your aging loved one, you might hire a caregiver to help out. In some locations across the country, home care is expensive. The average cost in the U.S. is $24 per hour for a home health aid, according to the Genworth Financial Cost of Care Survey. If the cost of in-home care is too much, you might want to consider providing care yourself.

Logistics of Moving

Some people decide to move elderly loved ones closer to them, but this can be challenging, too. If you know your loved one needs more care, consider if it would be easier for you to move there instead of uprooting your loved one. Elderly people who need more care often have health care providers and other services already secured. It can be confusing and scary for an elderly person to move, especially if they have dementia.

Tips to Make the Move Easier

Getting preapproved for a home mortgage before you move can simplify the process. You have a realistic idea of how much money you can get, which helps narrow down your search. Once you find the perfect home closer to your loved one, you can make an immediate offer, and being preapproved can make you an attractive buyer. In February 2021, every home that sold had an average of four offers. If you’re buying in a competitive market, your offer might be skipped if you’re not preapproved.

Hiring professional movers can also make your move easier. If you have large furniture or any specialty items, such as a pool table or piano, look for a moving company with experience handling such items. Search for “furniture movers near me” to connect with qualified companies if you’re moving long-distance. Get a quote from several movers, and ensure they have all the details about the move to give you an accurate quote. Many companies offer deals that can make the move more affordable. Look at reviews online on sites like Angi to help evaluate potential moving companies.

Know When to Move

Moving closer to an elderly loved one isn’t an easy decision, but it can be beneficial to both parties. Looking for the signs that your loved one needs more care can help you make the decision.


3 thoughts on “Fourteenth Page”

  1. Good morning, Liz, I am so sorry to hear that on top of everything else you have to bear you have this mess too.

    I have a suggestion that might work for you as it did for my husband. He has degenerative disc disease and was waiting for Medicare et al to approve an epidural injection. The only thing he had was Tylenol and Advil. Neither our PCP nor the spine doc wanted to give him anything else. We were also new-ish patients. our PCP finally suggested the Pain Management clinic at the hospital. Success we left with Tylenol 3 prescription. Fortunately it helped enough to hold him until his epidural steroid injection. The price for non drug abusers is high. This general broad brush approach to the opioid crisis isn’t really the solution.

    I pray for you and was happy to hear from you. Take good care. With gentle hugs, Peg

    Peg Weir



    1. Dear Peg,

      Good afternoon, and thank you for your comments! Feeling I’ve exhausted my options to get my issue resolved, I decided to post about it in the blog. It is always possible someone going through the same thing may read it and know they are not alone. Perhaps someone has gone or is going through it and they’ve had a better response to their situation than I have and will share it with me and the readers.

      I’ve had those epidural injections for my degenerative disc disease and they do help, for awhile, but there is a limit to the number of shots a person is able to get within a specified time frame. I’m glad your husband found temporary relief while awaiting his injection.

      Yes, the price for individuals who do not abuse the use of opioids is inhumanely high! And as a result, those individuals do not receive proper medical care. They suffer, because of those persons who DO abuse opioids and for the medical community, who at one time prescribed opioids indiscriminately.

      The entire “problem” with opioid prescription and use, needs to be re-evaluated to include the varying needs and situations of ALL the patients; including those who are left with no other legal option to address their pain. It should not be so… Too bad the pharmaceutical business cannot or will not develop a pain medication that is not an opioid, but eases the pain as effectively.

      Thank you so much for the prayers and the gentle hugs! They are always welcome! 😊


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